Wedding Vows

IT WAS A BLUSTERY, RAINY DAY 19 years ago when Mary Elizabeth and I were married on September 18, 1993.  We had planned an outdoor wedding, but luckily had a fallback plan in case of inclement weather. Mary Elizabeth grew up on the grounds of an 86-acre estate, which had been turned into Mill Neck…

The Upside of False Summits

WHEN I WAS A BOY I spent every summer in the Adirondacks at a sleep-away camp on Lake George, not far from Ticoderoga, New York.  It was a welcome respite from Manhattan in the summer, and was a much-needed break from life at home.  One of the highlights of camp (and there were many) was…

Thoughts on the summer solstice

IT’S BEEN A VERY LONG TIME since I’ve written a regular post to this blog, and I apologize for being away for so long.  On this, the summer solstice and longest day of the year, I thought I would provide an update.  Our lives continue on with school activities, movies and work.  Mary Elizabeth continues…

One Heart

Hearts have been on my mind a lot recently – especially since mine was recently examined up close and found to be in great shape after an initial scare.  We also attended a wonderful wedding in November where the song “One Hand, One Heart” from Westside Story was beautifully and lovingly performed and has stuck…

Whose Recovery?

Perspective can be a funny thing.  Since Mary Elizabeth’s stroke in December 2009, I was focused first on her survival, then her recovery and now her adjustment to daily life. Every day, I looked for changes.  Had she gotten better?  Had she gotten worse?  Was there a trend? In the last few weeks I’ve been…